Thursday, March 28, 2013

So Called Bad Girls

            Okay so you're a bad girl and it usually means that you don't care about anyone else. So many so called bad girls get in to fights over the most ridiculous things. Most of these bad girls go as far as stabbing the people they say are their friends in the back or even cheating on their significant other. The worst part of these situations is that they are actually proud of the things they do. Why would you be proud of being considered a slut and a terrible person all around? I don't even understand how there are even people that would want to around these so called bad girls. Why would someone want a person in their life that openly is terrible to everyone and doesn't care?
            I am sad to admit that one of my guilty pleasures is watching the Bad Girls Club on the Oxygen Network. Season after season I watch these women get on national television proclaiming how they are a bad girl because they are the life of the party and don't give a shit what people think of them. From my perspective they are a bad girl because they are willing to get in to fist fights and call each other pretty much every name in the book. My favorite line (I think sarcastically) in the entire series is that some of them claim they are classy women. How in the world are you a classy woman when you are having sex on national television? Classy women don't go dancing  knowing very well they are wearing a dress that is extremely short. I've lost count of the number of underwear I've seen because these women are dancing sexy  forgetting that when they squat down their dresses go up to their stomachs. These so called classy women have even done wet t-shirt contests without wearing a bra. When I see these so called bad girls I don't think of someone that I would want to be around. If I were to see these women in real life I would definitely be going in the opposite direction from them. 
            While watching this series I've also noticed a very common trait among all these bad girls. They have no sense of loyalty when it comes to their relationships whether it be friends or boyfriends. They have repeatedly sad that this person or that person is their friend in the house. The next thing I know they are talking crap about that person behind their back or even getting in to a fight with them. Most of them enter the house they are staying in for the duration of the show say they have boyfriends waiting for them back home. It isn't even a week in to the show before they seem to be looking for someone just to have sex with. Why have a boyfriend if you're just going to cheat on them? You clearly can't be loyal to just one person so why make that commitment? Just remain single and quit wasting someone's time that could be with someone that actually treats them right. Do these women even realize that their boyfriends back home will eventually watch the show and see the evidence of them being cheated on? Most of these women just keep some of the guys around because they give them stuff. One girl in the most recent season has an older guy she sees that has the nickname of Mr. Yes because he never says no to anything she asks for. So not only do these bad girls not know how to be faithful but most seem to be gold diggers. Why would anyone want to be with women like this?
            I'll never quite understand why a woman that claims they are a classy woman would fight, cuss, show off their underwear, and sleep around. I would never be proud of myself for doing any of those things. I would feel so lonely because honestly I wouldn't have any friends because no one around me could trust me. I would much rather be the good girl who knows how to have a good time without hurting any of the people around me in the process. Would you want someone like this in your life?

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